{"id":114466,"date":"2026-07-13T07:59:26","date_gmt":"2026-07-13T07:59:26","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/mardinhaberyolu.com\/?p=114466"},"modified":"2026-07-13T07:59:26","modified_gmt":"2026-07-13T07:59:26","slug":"guvenimizi-ne-zaman-kaybettik","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/mardinhaberyolu.com\/?p=114466","title":{"rendered":"G\u00dcVEN\u0130M\u0130Z\u0130 NE ZAMAN KAYBETT\u0130K?"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>Bir insana inanmak, verdi\u011fi s\u00f6ze g\u00fcvenmek, yan\u0131nda kendini huzurlu hissetmek\u2026 Bunlar hayat\u0131n g\u00f6r\u00fcnmeyen ama en g\u00fc\u00e7l\u00fc ba\u011flar\u0131d\u0131r. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc sevginin de dostlu\u011fun da aile ili\u015fkilerinin de toplum d\u00fczeninin de temelinde g\u00fcven vard\u0131r. Ama bug\u00fcn hepimizin hissetti\u011fi bir ger\u00e7ek var; G\u00fcven duygumuz giderek azal\u0131yor.<\/p>\n<p>35 y\u0131ll\u0131k gazetecilik hayat\u0131m boyunca Van\u2019dan Diyarbak\u0131r\u2019a, Diyarbak\u0131r\u2019dan \u015eanl\u0131urfa\u2019ya kadar farkl\u0131 \u015fehirlerde ya\u015fad\u0131m, insan hik\u00e2yelerine tan\u0131kl\u0131k ettim. Gazeteci olarak bazen bir k\u00f6y evinde, bazen bir mahalle kahvesinde, bazen ac\u0131l\u0131 bir ailenin yan\u0131nda insanlar\u0131 dinledim. Y\u0131llar i\u00e7inde g\u00f6rd\u00fc\u011f\u00fcm en \u00f6nemli ger\u00e7eklerden biri \u015fuydu; \u0130nsanlar\u0131n en b\u00fcy\u00fck ihtiyac\u0131 sadece ekmek ve a\u015f de\u011fildi. \u0130nsanlar\u0131n birbirine inanma, dayanma ve g\u00fcvenme ihtiyac\u0131 vard\u0131.<\/p>\n<p>Van\u2019da mahalle k\u00fclt\u00fcr\u00fcn\u00fcn g\u00fc\u00e7l\u00fc oldu\u011fu y\u0131llar\u0131 hat\u0131rl\u0131yorum. \u0130nsanlar birbirini tan\u0131rd\u0131. Bir kom\u015funun s\u00f6z\u00fc, bazen bir senetten daha de\u011ferliydi.<\/p>\n<p>Diyarbak\u0131r\u2019da gazetecilik yapt\u0131\u011f\u0131m y\u0131llarda da ayn\u0131 dayan\u0131\u015fmay\u0131 \u00e7ok g\u00f6rd\u00fcm. Zor zamanlarda insanlar birbirinin kap\u0131s\u0131n\u0131 \u00e7alar, ac\u0131s\u0131n\u0131 payla\u015f\u0131r, sevincini \u00e7o\u011falt\u0131rd\u0131.<\/p>\n<p>Elbette ge\u00e7mi\u015fte her \u015fey kusursuz de\u011fildi. \u0130nsanlar yine hata yap\u0131yordu, k\u0131rg\u0131nl\u0131klar ya\u015fan\u0131yordu. Ancak ili\u015fkilerde sab\u0131r, emek, sayg\u0131 ve vefa daha g\u00fc\u00e7l\u00fcyd\u00fc.<\/p>\n<p>Bug\u00fcn ise \u00e7ok farkl\u0131 bir \u00e7a\u011f\u0131n i\u00e7indeyiz. Teknoloji geli\u015fti, hayat h\u0131zland\u0131; ama g\u00fcven azald\u0131. Sosyal medya hayat\u0131m\u0131za b\u00fcy\u00fck kolayl\u0131klar getirdi. D\u00fcnyan\u0131n farkl\u0131 yerlerindeki insanlarla ileti\u015fim kurabiliyoruz. Ancak ayn\u0131 zamanda ili\u015fkilerimizi de daha h\u0131zl\u0131 t\u00fcketti\u011fimiz bir d\u00f6neme girdik.<\/p>\n<p>Eskiden insanlar birbirini tan\u0131mak i\u00e7in zaman harcard\u0131. Bug\u00fcn ise birka\u00e7 foto\u011fraf, birka\u00e7 mesaj ve birka\u00e7 payla\u015f\u0131m \u00fczerinden insanlar birbirleri hakk\u0131nda karar verebiliyor. \u0130li\u015fkiler ba\u015flamak i\u00e7in kolayla\u015ft\u0131 ama s\u00fcrd\u00fcrmek zorla\u015ft\u0131.<\/p>\n<p>Belki de insan hayat\u0131ndaki en b\u00fcy\u00fck s\u0131navlardan biri de a\u015fkta g\u00fcvendir. Y\u0131llar ge\u00e7se, insanlar de\u011fi\u015fse, hayat ba\u015fka y\u00f6nlere savrulsa bile baz\u0131 duygular kalbin bir k\u00f6\u015fesinde ya\u015famaya devam eder.<\/p>\n<p>Bazen y\u0131llar sonra kar\u015f\u0131la\u015fan iki insan, ge\u00e7mi\u015fte kalan bir sevginin yeniden kap\u0131s\u0131n\u0131 aralayabilir. Ancak ge\u00e7mi\u015fteki duygunun yeniden ya\u015fanabilmesi i\u00e7in sadece sevgi yetmez; g\u00fcven, anlay\u0131\u015f ve sab\u0131r da gerekir.<\/p>\n<p>\u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc zaman insanlar\u0131 de\u011fi\u015ftirir. Her insan ya\u015fad\u0131\u011f\u0131 ac\u0131lar\u0131, hayal k\u0131r\u0131kl\u0131klar\u0131n\u0131, sevin\u00e7leri ve m\u00fccadeleleri yan\u0131nda ta\u015f\u0131r. Bu y\u00fczden yeniden ba\u015flayan bir ili\u015fkinin en \u00f6nemli ihtiyac\u0131, birbirini yeniden tan\u0131mak ve yeniden g\u00fcvenmektir.<\/p>\n<p>A\u015fk sadece ge\u00e7mi\u015fte ya\u015fanan g\u00fczel an\u0131lara tutunmak de\u011fildir; bug\u00fcn\u00fcn ger\u00e7ekleriyle birbirine yeniden inanabilmektir. G\u00fcven kayboldu\u011funda sevgi de yara al\u0131r. Bu durum sadece \u00f6zel hayat\u0131m\u0131zda de\u011fil, toplum hayat\u0131m\u0131zda da kendisini g\u00f6steriyor.<\/p>\n<p>\u0130nsanlar art\u0131k siyasete, kurumlara, verilen s\u00f6zlere ve gelece\u011fe daha fazla ku\u015fkuyla bak\u0131yor.<\/p>\n<p>Oysa g\u00fc\u00e7l\u00fc toplumlar sadece ekonomik geli\u015fmelerle kurulmaz. \u0130nsanlar\u0131n birbirine g\u00fcvenebildi\u011fi, s\u00f6z\u00fcn de\u011fer ta\u015f\u0131d\u0131\u011f\u0131 bir ortam olu\u015fturmak da b\u00fcy\u00fck bir medeniyet g\u00f6stergesidir.<\/p>\n<p>Belki de bug\u00fcn yeniden hat\u0131rlamam\u0131z gereken en \u00f6nemli de\u011ferlerden biri \u015fudur; G\u00fcven kaybolursa sevgi eksilir, dostluk zay\u0131flar, toplum yaln\u0131zla\u015f\u0131r. \u0130nsan insana ihtiya\u00e7 duyar. Ama insan\u0131n insana yakla\u015fabilmesi i\u00e7in \u00f6nce kalbinde g\u00fcven olmas\u0131 gerekir.<\/p>\n<p><strong>AHMET TELL\u0130\u2019N\u0130N ARDINDAN\u2026<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Bu yaz\u0131y\u0131 kaleme al\u0131rken b\u00fcy\u00fck bir \u015fairimizi de anmadan ge\u00e7mek istemiyorum. <strong>Ahmet Telli\u2026<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Diyarbak\u0131r\u2019\u0131n k\u00fclt\u00fcr ve sanat hayat\u0131nda \u00f6nemli iz b\u0131rakan, \u015fiiri sevdiren, s\u00f6z\u00fc de\u011ferli k\u0131lan insanlardan biriydi.<\/p>\n<p>Diyarbak\u0131r\u2019da gazetecilik yapt\u0131\u011f\u0131m y\u0131llarda kendisiyle bir\u00e7ok kez kar\u015f\u0131la\u015fma ve sohbet etme f\u0131rsat\u0131 buldum. T\u00dcYAP Kitap Fuar\u0131\u2019nda uzun bir sohbetimizin ard\u0131ndan kitab\u0131n\u0131 imzalayarak bana hediye etmi\u015fti.<\/p>\n<p>Onunla konu\u015furken sadece bir \u015fairle de\u011fil; insan\u0131, hayat\u0131 ve memleketi derinden hisseden bir dostla sohbet etti\u011finizi d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcrd\u00fcn\u00fcz.<\/p>\n<p>Ahmet Telli Hocam\u0131za Allah\u2019tan rahmet; ailesine, sevenlerine ve \u015fiir d\u00fcnyam\u0131za ba\u015fsa\u011fl\u0131\u011f\u0131 diliyorum.<\/p>\n<p>Baz\u0131 insanlar aram\u0131zdan ayr\u0131l\u0131r ama b\u0131rakt\u0131klar\u0131 kelimeler ya\u015famaya devam eder. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc ger\u00e7ek \u015fairler sadece \u015fiir yazmaz; insan\u0131n kalbine dokunur.<\/p>\n<p>Ahmet Telli\u2019ye\u2026<\/p>\n<p><strong>Gidenin ard\u0131ndan kal\u0131r bir sessiz h\u00fcz\u00fcn,<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>Bir dizede saklan\u0131r bazen b\u00fct\u00fcn \u00f6mr\u00fcn.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>Kelimeler susmaz, \u015fiir olur hat\u0131ra,<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>\u0130nsan kalpte ya\u015far, t\u00fckenmez sevgi.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Sevgiyle kal\u0131n.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>De\u011fi\u015fen sadece zaman m\u0131, yoksa insan\u0131n insana bak\u0131\u015f\u0131 m\u0131?<\/p>\n<p>\u0130nsan hayat\u0131nda baz\u0131 kelimeler vard\u0131r; anlam\u0131n\u0131 kaybetti\u011finde asl\u0131nda \u00e7ok \u015fey kaybolur. 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