Su\u00e7lu kim? Bu sorunun cevab\u0131n\u0131 tek bir yere b\u0131rakmak kolay, ama ger\u00e7ek bu kadar basit de\u011fil. Aile mi, okul mu, sistem mi, ekranlar m\u0131? Hepsi bir par\u00e7a etkili olabilir. Ama hi\u00e7bir etki, i\u015flenen su\u00e7u ortadan kald\u0131rmaz.<\/p>\n
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Bug\u00fcn su\u00e7lu ar\u0131yoruz. Hakl\u0131y\u0131z da. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc ortada bir su\u00e7 var ve bunu yapanlar bunun sorumlulu\u011funu ta\u015f\u0131r. Ama sadece burada kal\u0131rsak eksik kal\u0131r\u0131z. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc bu olaylar, tek bir an\u0131n de\u011fil; uzun s\u00fcre fark edilmemi\u015f, ertelenmi\u015f, bast\u0131r\u0131lm\u0131\u015f s\u00fcre\u00e7lerin sonucudur.<\/p>\n
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As\u0131l zor olan ise \u015fu soruyla y\u00fczle\u015fmektir: Bu noktaya nas\u0131l gelindi? \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc insan davran\u0131\u015f\u0131 bir anda keskin bir k\u0131r\u0131lma ya\u015famaz; aksine, yava\u015f yava\u015f y\u00f6n de\u011fi\u015ftirir. D\u0131\u015far\u0131dan \u201cnormal\u201d g\u00f6r\u00fcnen pek \u00e7ok \u015fey, asl\u0131nda i\u00e7eride b\u00fcy\u00fcyen bir kopu\u015fun habercisi olabilir. Sessizle\u015fen bir \u00e7ocuk, uzakla\u015fan bir gen\u00e7, kendini geri \u00e7eken bir zihin\u2026 Bunlar \u00e7o\u011fu zaman dikkat \u00e7ekmez. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc ba\u011f\u0131rmazlar. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc sorun \u00e7\u0131karmazlar. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc g\u00f6r\u00fcnmezler.<\/p>\n
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Tam da burada en tehlikeli alan olu\u015fur: G\u00f6rmezden gelinenler. Ne tamamen ilgisizlik, ne de bo\u011fucu bir kontrol\u2026 \u0130kisinin aras\u0131nda kurulamayan o denge, \u00e7ocuklar\u0131 kendi i\u00e7 d\u00fcnyalar\u0131na mahk\u00fbm eder. Ve o d\u00fcnya, \u00e7o\u011fu zaman d\u0131\u015far\u0131dan tahmin edilenden \u00e7ok daha karanl\u0131k olabilir.<\/p>\n
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Sevgili okurlar, bug\u00fcn ya\u015fad\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z sars\u0131nt\u0131n\u0131n as\u0131l a\u011f\u0131rl\u0131\u011f\u0131 burada. G\u00fcven dedi\u011fimiz \u015feyin zedelendi\u011fi yerdeyiz. Okul art\u0131k sadece bilgi aktar\u0131lan bir yer de\u011fil, ayn\u0131 zamanda \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n kendini g\u00fcvende hissetti\u011fi bir alan olmak zorunda. Ama bug\u00fcn o duygunun yerini tedirginlik al\u0131yorsa, burada durup d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnmemiz gerekir. Korkuyla hareket eden, panikle ka\u00e7maya \u00e7al\u0131\u015fan \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n g\u00f6r\u00fcnt\u00fcs\u00fc, bir toplumun haf\u0131zas\u0131nda kolay kolay silinmez. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc bir toplum, en \u00e7ok \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n\u0131n korktu\u011fu yerde yara al\u0131r.<\/p>\n
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\u00dcstelik baz\u0131 \u015feylere g\u00f6sterilen hassasiyetin, \u015fiddetin kendisine ayn\u0131 \u015fekilde g\u00f6sterilmemesi de ayr\u0131 bir \u00e7eli\u015fki de\u011fil mi? Zararl\u0131 al\u0131\u015fkanl\u0131klar ekranda gizlenirken, silah\u0131n ve \u015fiddetin bu kadar g\u00f6r\u00fcn\u00fcr olmas\u0131, zihinlerde nas\u0131l bir normalle\u015fme yarat\u0131yor, bunu da d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnmek gerekmiyor mu?<\/p>\n
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\u00c7ocuklar\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 koruyun\u2026 ama sadece d\u0131\u015far\u0131dan de\u011fil. Sadece okuldan, sokaktan de\u011fil; kendi ihmalinizden koruyun. Onlar\u0131, yaln\u0131z b\u0131rak\u0131ld\u0131klar\u0131 sessizlikten koruyun. Ne izledi\u011fini, ne d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnd\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn\u00fc, ne hissetti\u011fini bilmeden b\u00fcy\u00fcyen bir \u00e7ocu\u011fun i\u00e7 d\u00fcnyas\u0131n\u0131 tesad\u00fcfe b\u0131rakmay\u0131n. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc bazen en b\u00fcy\u00fck tehlike, tam da g\u00f6r\u00fcnmeyen yerde b\u00fcy\u00fcr.<\/p>\n
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Ve unutmay\u0131n: G\u00f6rmezden gelinen hi\u00e7bir \u015fey kaybolmaz.<\/p>\n
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\u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc g\u00f6rmezden gelinen her \u015fey, bir g\u00fcn en a\u011f\u0131r haliyle geri d\u00f6ner<\/p>\n
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Okullarda ya\u015fanan sald\u0131r\u0131lar\u0131n ard\u0131ndan i\u00e7imize yerle\u015fen o tan\u0131d\u0131k soru yeniden kar\u015f\u0131m\u0131zda duruyor: En g\u00fcvenli yer neresiydi? \u00c7ocuklar\u0131n emanet edildi\u011fi, ailelerin g\u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fc arkada b\u0131rakmamaya \u00e7al\u0131\u015ft\u0131\u011f\u0131 o yerler\u2026 Art\u0131k sadece birer e\u011fitim alan\u0131 de\u011fil, ayn\u0131 zamanda derin bir tedirginli\u011fin adresi haline geliyor. \u00dcstelik bu kez mesele s\u0131radan bir ta\u015fk\u0131nl\u0131k de\u011fil; ortada geri d\u00f6n\u00fc\u015f\u00fc olmayan sonu\u00e7lar var.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":12,"featured_media":113151,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[24],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-113150","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-yazarlar"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/mardinhaberyolu.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/113150","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/mardinhaberyolu.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/mardinhaberyolu.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/mardinhaberyolu.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/12"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/mardinhaberyolu.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=113150"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/mardinhaberyolu.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/113150\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":113152,"href":"https:\/\/mardinhaberyolu.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/113150\/revisions\/113152"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/mardinhaberyolu.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/113151"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/mardinhaberyolu.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=113150"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/mardinhaberyolu.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=113150"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/mardinhaberyolu.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=113150"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}