{"id":113111,"date":"2026-04-13T07:56:45","date_gmt":"2026-04-13T07:56:45","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/mardinhaberyolu.com\/?p=113111"},"modified":"2026-04-13T07:56:45","modified_gmt":"2026-04-13T07:56:45","slug":"kimse-kimseyi-duymuyor","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/mardinhaberyolu.com\/?p=113111","title":{"rendered":"K\u0130MSE K\u0130MSEY\u0130 DUYMUYOR\u2026"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>C\u00fcmleler havada kal\u0131yor, g\u00f6zler ekranlara d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcyordu. Bir an ba\u015f\u0131n\u0131 kald\u0131ran biri oldu, <strong>\u2018Ben sana bir \u015fey anlat\u0131yordum<\/strong>\u2019 dedi. Kar\u015f\u0131s\u0131ndaki, yar\u0131m bir tebess\u00fcmle <strong>\u2018Dinliyorum\u2019<\/strong> diye cevap verdi.<\/p>\n<p>Oysa dinlemiyordu.<\/p>\n<p>Bug\u00fcn en b\u00fcy\u00fck yaln\u0131zl\u0131k, kalabal\u0131klar\u0131n ortas\u0131nda ya\u015fan\u0131yor. Ve insan art\u0131k en \u00e7ok\u2026 Anla\u015f\u0131lmad\u0131\u011f\u0131 yerde yoruluyor.<\/p>\n<p>Sokaklar dolu, kahvehaneler dolu, evler dolu\u2026<\/p>\n<p>Ama i\u00e7ler bo\u015f.<\/p>\n<p>Eskiden birinin kap\u0131s\u0131n\u0131 \u00e7almak yeterdi. \u015eimdi ayn\u0131 evin i\u00e7inde kap\u0131lar kapal\u0131, g\u00f6n\u00fcller daha da kapal\u0131. <strong>\u2018Bir \u00e7ay i\u00e7elim\u2019<\/strong> diye ba\u015flayan sohbetler vard\u0131. Saatler s\u00fcrerdi, kimse s\u0131k\u0131lmazd\u0131. \u015eimdi ise herkesin acelesi var ama kimsenin yeti\u015fti\u011fi bir yer yok. En basit sorular bile art\u0131k samimiyetini kaybetti.<\/p>\n<p><strong>\u2018Nas\u0131ls\u0131n?\u2019<\/strong> diyoruz.<\/p>\n<p>Ama cevab\u0131n\u0131 ger\u00e7ekten merak etmiyoruz.<\/p>\n<p>\u0130nsanlar dertlerini anlatmak istiyor ama kar\u015f\u0131s\u0131nda bir y\u00fcz de\u011fil, bir ekran buluyor. Ve zamanla \u015funu \u00f6\u011freniyor: Anlatman\u0131n bir anlam\u0131 yok.<\/p>\n<p>\u0130\u015fte o an ba\u015fl\u0131yor as\u0131l kopu\u015f. Sessiz, derinden ve fark edilmeden\u2026<\/p>\n<p><strong>D\u0130NLEMEK YER\u0130NE SIRAMIZI BEKL\u0130YORUZ<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Bug\u00fcn kimse dinlemek i\u00e7in konu\u015fmuyor. Herkes konu\u015fmak i\u00e7in f\u0131rsat kolluyor. Birine bir \u015fey anlat\u0131yorsun\u2026 G\u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fcn i\u00e7ine bak\u0131yorsun ama onun akl\u0131 ba\u015fka yerde. Sen c\u00fcmleni bitirmeden, o kendi anlatacaklar\u0131n\u0131 haz\u0131rl\u0131yor. Art\u0131k kimse anlamaya \u00e7al\u0131\u015fm\u0131yor. Herkes hakl\u0131, herkes kendinden emin. Ama kimse kar\u015f\u0131s\u0131ndakinin y\u00fck\u00fcn\u00fc ta\u015f\u0131maya niyetli de\u011fil. O y\u00fczden en \u00e7ok \u015fu eksik:<\/p>\n<p><strong>Sab\u0131r\u2026<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>Empati\u2026<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>Ve en \u00f6nemlisi, ger\u00e7ekten kulak vermek.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>\u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc dinlemek, sadece susmak de\u011fildir. Dinlemek, kar\u015f\u0131ndakine <strong>\u2018Sen vars\u0131n\u2019<\/strong> demektir. Bug\u00fcn insanlar\u0131n en \u00e7ok ihtiya\u00e7 duydu\u011fu \u015fey de bu de\u011fil mi zaten? Belki de bu y\u00fczden bu kadar yorgunuz.<\/p>\n<p>\u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc i\u00e7imizde biriken, s\u00f6ylenemeyen, yar\u0131m kalan o kadar \u00e7ok \u015fey var ki\u2026<\/p>\n<p>Ve insan, her \u015feye dayan\u0131r da\u2026<\/p>\n<p>Anla\u015f\u0131lmamaya uzun s\u00fcre dayanamaz.<\/p>\n<p>\u015eimdi herkes kendine \u015fu soruyu sormal\u0131:<\/p>\n<p><strong>Son zamanlarda birini ger\u00e7ekten dinledim mi\u2026<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>Yoksa sadece konu\u015fma s\u0131ram\u0131n gelmesini mi bekledim?<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>Sevgiyle kal\u0131n.<\/strong><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Ayn\u0131 masadayd\u0131lar\u2026\u00c7aylar geldi, telefonlar \u00e7\u0131kar\u0131ld\u0131. Herkes konu\u015fuyordu ama kimse kimseye bakm\u0131yordu.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":3,"featured_media":113112,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[24],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-113111","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-yazarlar"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/mardinhaberyolu.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/113111","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/mardinhaberyolu.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/mardinhaberyolu.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/mardinhaberyolu.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/3"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/mardinhaberyolu.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=113111"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/mardinhaberyolu.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/113111\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":113113,"href":"https:\/\/mardinhaberyolu.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/113111\/revisions\/113113"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/mardinhaberyolu.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/113112"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/mardinhaberyolu.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=113111"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/mardinhaberyolu.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=113111"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/mardinhaberyolu.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=113111"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}