Bug\u00fcn sokakta y\u00fcr\u00fcrken kimsenin kimseye bakmad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 fark ediyor musunuz? Bir selam\u0131n bile l\u00fcks say\u0131ld\u0131\u011f\u0131, bir tebess\u00fcm\u00fcn bile \u015f\u00fcpheyle kar\u015f\u0131land\u0131\u011f\u0131 bir zamanday\u0131z. \u0130nsanlar art\u0131k birbirine de\u011fil, sadece kendi derdine bak\u0131yor. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc herkes yorgun. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc herkes biraz k\u0131rg\u0131n. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc herkes biraz yaln\u0131z. Ama as\u0131l mesele \u015fu; Bu yorgunluk nereden geldi?<\/p>\n
Bu \u00fclkenin insan\u0131 \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmay\u0131 bilir. Sabretmeyi de bilir. Ama belirsizli\u011fi ta\u015f\u0131yamaz. Bug\u00fcn en b\u00fcy\u00fck sorunlardan biri, insanlar\u0131n yar\u0131n ne olaca\u011f\u0131n\u0131 bilememesidir. Bir baba, \u00e7ocu\u011funun gelece\u011fini d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcrken i\u00e7inden sessizce \u00e7\u00f6k\u00fcyorsa, bir anne mutfakta tencereyi kaynat\u0131rken g\u00f6zleri doluyorsa, orada sadece ekonomik kriz yoktur. Orada bir umut krizi vard\u0131r.<\/p>\n
Diyarbak\u0131r\u2019da da Van\u2019da da durum farkl\u0131 de\u011fil. \u00c7ar\u015f\u0131da esnaf\u0131n y\u00fcz\u00fcne bak\u0131n; sadece sat\u0131\u015f yapamaman\u0131n de\u011fil, de\u011fersizle\u015fmenin h\u00fczn\u00fc vard\u0131r. Gen\u00e7lere bak\u0131n; i\u015fsizlikten \u00e7ok, \u2018benim yerim neresi?\u2019 sorusunun cevaps\u0131zl\u0131\u011f\u0131 vard\u0131r. \u0130nsan sadece para kazanmak istemez; kendini ait hissetmek ister. De\u011fer g\u00f6rmek ister. Ama ne yaz\u0131k ki bug\u00fcn en b\u00fcy\u00fck kay\u0131p, tam da burada ya\u015fan\u0131yor; \u0130nsanlar art\u0131k kendini de\u011ferli hissetmiyor.<\/p>\n
Adalet duygusu zedelendi\u011finde, toplumun omurgas\u0131 k\u0131r\u0131l\u0131r. Birinin hakk\u0131 yenildi\u011finde ve di\u011ferleri susuyorsa, o sessizlik g\u00fcn gelir herkesin kap\u0131s\u0131n\u0131 \u00e7alar. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc adalet, birine laz\u0131m oldu\u011funda de\u011fil; herkese laz\u0131m oldu\u011funda anlaml\u0131d\u0131r.<\/p>\n
UNUTTU\u011eUMUZ \u015eEY: \u0130NSAN OLMAK<\/strong><\/p>\n Eskiden mahalle vard\u0131. Kap\u0131 \u00f6n\u00fcnde oturan teyzeler, top oynayan \u00e7ocuklar, birbirine emanet edilen hayatlar vard\u0131. \u015eimdi herkes kendi kap\u0131s\u0131n\u0131n ard\u0131nda, kendi d\u00fcnyas\u0131na kapanm\u0131\u015f durumda. Teknoloji ilerledi ama insanl\u0131k geriledi.<\/p>\n Bir annenin fedak\u00e2rl\u0131\u011f\u0131 bile art\u0131k s\u0131radan bir haber gibi ge\u00e7iliyor g\u00f6z\u00fcm\u00fcz\u00fcn \u00f6n\u00fcnden. Oysa bu topraklarda anneler sadece \u00e7ocuk b\u00fcy\u00fctmez; hayat ta\u015f\u0131r. Kendi hayallerini susturup, \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n\u0131n hayallerine yol a\u00e7ar. Ama biz ne zaman durup da bir annenin g\u00f6zlerinin i\u00e7ine bak\u0131p \u2018iyi ki vars\u0131n\u2019 dedik?<\/p>\n Bir \u00e7ocu\u011fun sokakta korkmadan oynayabildi\u011fi bir \u00fclke, g\u00fc\u00e7l\u00fc bir \u00fclkedir. Bir kad\u0131n\u0131n gece y\u00fcr\u00fcrken arkas\u0131na bakmad\u0131\u011f\u0131 bir \u015fehir, huzurlu bir \u015fehirdir. Ama biz bug\u00fcn ne yaz\u0131k ki bu basit c\u00fcmleleri bile \u2018temenni\u2019 olarak kuruyoruz.<\/p>\n Bu, normal de\u011fil.<\/p>\n Normalle\u015ftirdi\u011fimiz her yanl\u0131\u015f, yar\u0131n\u0131n felaketidir.<\/p>\n Peki \u00c7\u00f6z\u00fcm Nerede?<\/p>\n \u00c7\u00f6z\u00fcm uzaklarda de\u011fil. B\u00fcy\u00fck projelerde, b\u00fcy\u00fck laflarda da de\u011fil. \u00c7\u00f6z\u00fcm; insan\u0131n yeniden insana d\u00f6nmesinde.<\/p>\n Birbirimizi yeniden g\u00f6rmemiz gerekiyor. Sadece bakmak de\u011fil, g\u00f6rmek. Sadece duymak de\u011fil, anlamak. Bir \u00e7ocu\u011fun ba\u015f\u0131n\u0131 ok\u015famak, bir ya\u015fl\u0131n\u0131n halini sormak, bir esnafa \u2018hay\u0131rl\u0131 i\u015fler\u2019 demek\u2026 Bunlar k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck \u015feyler gibi g\u00f6r\u00fcn\u00fcr ama bir toplumu ayakta tutan tam da bu k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck ba\u011flard\u0131r.<\/p>\n Devlet elbette g\u00f6revini yapmal\u0131. Adalet, ekonomi, g\u00fcvenlik\u2026 Bunlar tart\u0131\u015f\u0131lmaz sorumluluklard\u0131r. Ama toplum da kendi sorumlulu\u011funu unutmamal\u0131. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc bir \u00fclkeyi sadece y\u00f6netenler de\u011fil, ya\u015fayanlar da \u015fekillendirir.<\/p>\n Bug\u00fcn belki hepimiz biraz k\u0131rg\u0131n\u0131z. Belki biraz umutsuzuz. Ama unutmayal\u0131m: Umut, en \u00e7ok karanl\u0131kta anlaml\u0131d\u0131r.<\/p>\n Toplumlar bir g\u00fcnde y\u0131k\u0131lmaz, ama bir g\u00fcnde de aya\u011fa kalkabilir. Yeter ki niyet olsun. Yeter ki vicdan h\u00e2l\u00e2 canl\u0131 olsun.<\/p>\n Belki de art\u0131k kendimize \u015fu soruyu sorman\u0131n zaman\u0131 geldi; \u2018ben bu toplum i\u00e7in ne yap\u0131yorum?\u2019<\/p>\n Cevap b\u00fcy\u00fck olmak zorunda de\u011fil. Ama samimi olmal\u0131. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc bir toplumun kurtulu\u015fu, b\u00fcy\u00fck kahramanlardan de\u011fil; k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck ama d\u00fcr\u00fcst insanlardan ge\u00e7er.<\/p>\n Sevgiyle kal\u0131n.<\/strong><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":" Bazen g\u00fcr\u00fclt\u00fcyle de\u011fil, sessizlikle \u00e7\u00f6ker toplumlar. B\u00fcy\u00fck k\u0131r\u0131lmalar, b\u00fcy\u00fck patlamalarla de\u011fil; k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck, g\u00f6r\u00fcnmez, fark edilmeyen ihmallerle ba\u015flar. Kimse bir sabah uyan\u0131p \u2018biz ne ara bu hale geldik?\u2019 diye sormaz asl\u0131nda. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc o hale bir anda gelinmez. 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