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Sabah erkenden kalk\u0131p ilk onlar\u0131 giymenin verdi\u011fi o tarifsiz heyecan\u0131\u2026<\/p>\n
Kap\u0131lar\u0131n ard\u0131na kadar a\u00e7\u0131k oldu\u011fu, \u00e7ocuk seslerinin mahalleyi doldurdu\u011fu, b\u00fcy\u00fcklerin dualar\u0131yla ba\u015flayan o bayram sabahlar\u0131n\u0131\u2026<\/p>\n
Bug\u00fcn bayram geldi\u011finde bir\u00e7ok insan\u0131n dilinden ayn\u0131 c\u00fcmle d\u00f6k\u00fcl\u00fcyor; \u2018Ah nerede o eski bayramlar\u2026\u2019 Bu s\u00f6z asl\u0131nda sadece ge\u00e7mi\u015fe duyulan bir \u00f6zlem de\u011fil. Bu s\u00f6z; kaybolan mahallelerin, eksilen insan s\u0131cakl\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131n ve yava\u015f yava\u015f unutulan bir k\u00fclt\u00fcr\u00fcn i\u00e7 \u00e7eki\u015fidir.<\/p>\n
\u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc eskiden bayram sadece bir tatil g\u00fcn\u00fc de\u011fildi. Bayram; insanlar\u0131n birbirine daha \u00e7ok yakla\u015ft\u0131\u011f\u0131, kap\u0131lar\u0131n \u00e7al\u0131nd\u0131\u011f\u0131, g\u00f6n\u00fcllerin ziyaret edildi\u011fi ger\u00e7ek bir bayramd\u0131.<\/p>\n
KAPI KAPI DOLA\u015eAN BAYRAMLAR<\/strong><\/p>\n Eskiden bayram sabah\u0131 erkenden ba\u015flard\u0131. Evlerde tatl\u0131 bir tela\u015f olurdu. B\u00fcy\u00fckler sabah namaz\u0131ndan sonra camiden d\u00f6ner, evlerde bayramla\u015fma ba\u015flard\u0131. Kahve kokusu, kolonya kokusu, yeni yap\u0131lm\u0131\u015f baklavalar\u0131n ve \u015fekerlerin kokusu evin her k\u00f6\u015fesine yay\u0131l\u0131rd\u0131.<\/p>\n Misafir i\u00e7in haz\u0131rlanan \u015fekerlikler, tepsiler, kolonya \u015fi\u015feleri ba\u015fk\u00f6\u015fede haz\u0131r beklerdi.<\/p>\n \u00c7ocuklar i\u00e7in ise bayram\u0131n en b\u00fcy\u00fck heyecan\u0131 bayraml\u0131k k\u0131yafetlerdi. \u00d6yle bug\u00fcnk\u00fc gibi s\u0131k s\u0131k yeni k\u0131yafet al\u0131nmazd\u0131. Bayraml\u0131klar aylar \u00f6ncesinden al\u0131n\u0131r, dolapta \u00f6zenle saklan\u0131rd\u0131. Hatta \u00e7ocuklar bazen o k\u0131yafetleri \u00e7\u0131kar\u0131p bakar, tekrar yerine koyard\u0131. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc bayram gelmeden giyilmezdi.<\/p>\n Bayram sabah\u0131 o k\u0131yafetleri giymek bir \u00e7ocu\u011fun d\u00fcnyas\u0131ndaki en b\u00fcy\u00fck mutluluklardan biriydi. Sonra mahallede \u00e7ocuklar toplan\u0131rd\u0131. Kap\u0131lar tek tek \u00e7al\u0131n\u0131rd\u0131. \u2018Bayram\u0131n\u0131z m\u00fcbarek olsun\u2026\u2019 B\u00fcy\u00fcklerin elleri \u00f6p\u00fcl\u00fcr, ceplere har\u00e7l\u0131klar konurdu. \u015eekerler, \u00e7ikolatalar, bazen de birka\u00e7 bozuk para\u2026<\/p>\n B\u00fcy\u00fckler de tembih ederdi; \u2018Har\u00e7l\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 hemen bitirme evlad\u0131m\u2026\u2019 Ama o har\u00e7l\u0131klar\u0131n \u00e7o\u011fu \u00e7ok ge\u00e7meden mahalle bakkal\u0131nda harcan\u0131rd\u0131.<\/p>\n Gazoz al\u0131n\u0131rd\u0131.<\/p>\n Sak\u0131z al\u0131n\u0131rd\u0131.<\/p>\n Leblebi, akide \u015fekeri, renkli \u015fekerler.<\/p>\n Belki de sinemaya gidilirdi\u2026<\/p>\n Mahalle o g\u00fcn bamba\u015fka bir mahalle olurdu. Kap\u0131lar a\u00e7\u0131kt\u0131. Sokaklar doluydu. Y\u00fczler g\u00fcl\u00fcyordu.<\/p>\n Bir de bayram\u0131n gen\u00e7leri vard\u0131. Yeni al\u0131nan g\u00f6mlekler, ayakkab\u0131lar sadece bayram i\u00e7in de\u011fildi biraz da g\u00f6n\u00fcl meseleleri i\u00e7indi. Sevdi\u011fi olan gen\u00e7ler bayram g\u00fcn\u00fc birka\u00e7 kez o soka\u011f\u0131n \u00f6n\u00fcnden ge\u00e7erdi.<\/p>\n Belki bir pencere aralan\u0131r diye\u2026<\/p>\n Belki sevdi\u011fi bir an g\u00f6r\u00fcr diye\u2026<\/p>\n \u00dct\u00fcl\u00fc g\u00f6mlekler biraz da o bak\u0131\u015f i\u00e7in giyilirdi. Kimse bunu a\u00e7\u0131k a\u00e7\u0131k s\u00f6ylemezdi ama mahalle bilirdi. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc o bayramlarda samimiyet vard\u0131, masumiyet vard\u0131.<\/p>\n MESAJLA\u015eAN BAYRAMLAR<\/strong><\/p>\n Bug\u00fcn ise bayramlar h\u00e2l\u00e2 geliyor. Ama \u015fekli de\u011fi\u015fti. Eskiden bayramla\u015fmak i\u00e7in kap\u0131lar \u00e7al\u0131n\u0131rd\u0131. Bug\u00fcn telefon ekranlar\u0131 a\u00e7\u0131l\u0131yor. Eskiden b\u00fcy\u00fcklerin elleri \u00f6p\u00fcl\u00fcrd\u00fc. Bug\u00fcn \u00e7o\u011fu zaman tek bir mesaj g\u00f6nderiliyor; \u2018\u0130yi bayramlar\u2026\u2019<\/p>\n Eskiden bayram sofralar\u0131 kalabal\u0131k olurdu. Evler misafirle dolard\u0131. \u015eimdi bir\u00e7ok evde bayram sessiz ge\u00e7iyor. Eskiden \u00e7ocuklar bayram\u0131 sokakta ya\u015fard\u0131. \u015eimdi bir\u00e7ok \u00e7ocuk bayram\u0131n b\u00fcy\u00fck k\u0131sm\u0131n\u0131 telefon ya da tablet ekran\u0131nda ge\u00e7iriyor. \u015eeker torbalar\u0131n\u0131n yerini oyun puanlar\u0131 ald\u0131.<\/p>\n Mahalle k\u00fclt\u00fcr\u00fc azald\u0131. Kap\u0131lar eskisi kadar \u00e7al\u0131nm\u0131yor. Teknoloji hayat\u0131 kolayla\u015ft\u0131rd\u0131 ama baz\u0131 duygular\u0131 da sessizce bizden ald\u0131. Belki de bu y\u00fczden insanlar her f\u0131rsatta ayn\u0131 c\u00fcmleyi s\u00f6yl\u00fcyor;\u00a0 \u2018Eski bayramlar\u0131n tad\u0131 yok\u2026\u2019<\/p>\n Ama belki de ger\u00e7ek \u015fu;<\/p>\n Bayram de\u011fi\u015fmedi.<\/p>\n Biz de\u011fi\u015ftik.<\/p>\n Hayat h\u0131zland\u0131.<\/p>\n \u0130nsanlar uzakla\u015ft\u0131.<\/p>\n Sohbetler k\u0131sald\u0131.<\/p>\n Oysa bayram\u0131n \u00f6z\u00fc h\u00e2l\u00e2 ayn\u0131 yerde duruyor.<\/p>\n Bir b\u00fcy\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn elini \u00f6pmekte\u2026<\/p>\n Bir \u00e7ocu\u011fu sevindirmekte\u2026<\/p>\n Bir kap\u0131y\u0131 \u00e7al\u0131p \u2018Bayram\u0131n\u0131z m\u00fcbarek olsun\u2019 diyebilmekte\u2026<\/p>\n Belki eski bayramlar\u0131 geri getiremeyiz. Ama bayram\u0131n ruhunu yeniden hat\u0131rlayabiliriz.<\/p>\n Bir mesaj g\u00f6ndermek yerine bir kap\u0131 \u00e7alabiliriz.<\/p>\n Bir \u00e7ocu\u011fun cebine har\u00e7l\u0131k koyabiliriz.<\/p>\n Bir b\u00fcy\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn duas\u0131n\u0131 alabiliriz.<\/p>\n Belki o zaman y\u0131llard\u0131r dilimizden d\u00fc\u015fmeyen o c\u00fcmle biraz de\u011fi\u015fir. Belki bir g\u00fcn biri \u015f\u00f6yle der; \u2018Eski bayramlar g\u00fczeldi\u2026 Ama bu bayram da kalplerin yeniden birbirine yakla\u015ft\u0131\u011f\u0131 bir bayram oldu.\u2019<\/p>\n \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc \u2018Eski bayramlar\u201d dedi\u011fimiz \u015fey asl\u0131nda sadece ge\u00e7mi\u015f de\u011fildir. Onlar;<\/p>\n Art\u0131k aram\u0131zda olmayan dedelerin sesi,<\/p>\n Bayram sabah\u0131 mutfakta ko\u015fu\u015fturan annelerin tela\u015f\u0131,<\/p>\n Har\u00e7l\u0131k bekleyen \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n heyecan\u0131,<\/p>\n Ve kap\u0131lar\u0131 \u00e7al\u0131nan o eski evlerin hat\u0131ras\u0131d\u0131r. \u015eimdi o kap\u0131lar\u0131n \u00e7o\u011fu kapal\u0131. O seslerin \u00e7o\u011fu susmu\u015f. Ve biz her bayram sabah\u0131 asl\u0131nda sadece bayram\u0131 de\u011fil\u2026 Biraz da kaybetti\u011fimiz insanlar\u0131 \u00f6zl\u00fcyoruz. Belki de eski bayramlar\u0131 \u00f6zlememizin sebebi bayramlar\u0131n de\u011fi\u015fmesi de\u011fil; o bayramlarda yan\u0131m\u0131zda olan insanlar\u0131n art\u0131k aram\u0131zda olmamas\u0131d\u0131r.<\/p>\n Bu vesileyle t\u00fcm okurlar\u0131m\u0131n bayram\u0131n\u0131 en i\u00e7ten dileklerimle kutluyor, bayram\u0131n g\u00f6n\u00fcllerimize yeniden o eski s\u0131cakl\u0131\u011f\u0131 getirmesini diliyorum.<\/p>\n Sevgiyle kal\u0131n.<\/strong><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":" Bayram sabah\u0131 erkenden uyan\u0131p yeni ayakkab\u0131lar\u0131m\u0131z\u0131 yata\u011f\u0131n kenar\u0131na koydu\u011fumuz g\u00fcnleri hat\u0131rl\u0131yor musunuz? 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