Bir \u00f6\u011fretmen\u2026<\/p>\n
Bir anne\u2026<\/p>\n
Bir kad\u0131n\u2026<\/p>\n
Fatma Nur \u00c7elik.<\/p>\n
Bir okulda, kendi \u00f6\u011frencisi taraf\u0131ndan s\u0131n\u0131f\u0131n i\u00e7inde b\u0131\u00e7aklanarak \u00f6ld\u00fcr\u00fcld\u00fc. Ama insan\u0131n i\u00e7ini en \u00e7ok par\u00e7alayan k\u0131sm\u0131 cinayetin kendisi de\u011fil\u2026 \u00d6lmeden \u00f6nce s\u00f6yledi\u011fi o s\u00f6z. Yaral\u0131 halde s\u00fcr\u00fcnerek \u00f6\u011fretmen arkada\u015f\u0131n\u0131n yan\u0131na gidiyor ve \u015fu c\u00fcmleyi s\u00f6yl\u00fcyor; \u2018O\u011flumu okuldan al\u0131n\u2026\u2019<\/strong><\/p>\n Bir annenin son c\u00fcmlesi\u2026<\/p>\n Bir annenin \u00f6lmeden \u00f6nceki son d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcncesi\u2026<\/p>\n Kendi can\u0131 de\u011fil, \u00e7ocu\u011fu.<\/p>\n Ayn\u0131 g\u00fcnlerde ba\u015fka bir Fatma\u2019n\u0131n hik\u00e2yesi g\u00fcndeme d\u00fc\u015ft\u00fc.<\/p>\n Hen\u00fcz 8 ya\u015f\u0131nda bir k\u0131z \u00e7ocu\u011fu\u2026<\/p>\n \u00dc\u00e7 y\u0131ld\u0131r istismara u\u011frad\u0131\u011f\u0131 iddia edilen bir \u00e7ocuk\u2026<\/p>\n \u0130stismar\u0131 annesi taraf\u0131ndan defalarca bildirilmi\u015f, \u015fik\u00e2yet edilmi\u015f\u2026 Anne m\u00fccadele veriyor. Hatta bir g\u00fcn \u015f\u00f6yle diyor; \u2018E\u011fer ben \u00f6l\u00fcrsem bu intihar de\u011fildir.\u2019<\/strong><\/p>\n Ve o k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck k\u0131z \u00e7ocu\u011fu\u2026 Annesiyle birlikte sahilde \u00f6l\u00fc bulunuyor. T\u00fcrkiye bir kez daha soruyor; Bir \u00e7ocuk bu kadar yaln\u0131z nas\u0131l b\u0131rak\u0131l\u0131r?<\/strong><\/p>\n Ve yine ayn\u0131 g\u00fcnlerde\u2026<\/p>\n Seniha Deniz.<\/p>\n Bo\u015fanma a\u015famas\u0131nda oldu\u011fu e\u015fi taraf\u0131ndan \u00f6ld\u00fcr\u00fcld\u00fc.<\/p>\n Bu \u00fc\u00e7 olay sadece birka\u00e7 g\u00fcn i\u00e7inde ya\u015fand\u0131.<\/p>\n Ve takvim bize \u015funu hat\u0131rlat\u0131yordu; 8 Mart D\u00fcnya Emek\u00e7i Kad\u0131nlar G\u00fcn\u00fc.<\/strong><\/p>\n \u0130nsan sormadan edemiyor;<\/p>\n Ger\u00e7ekten kutlama g\u00fcn\u00fc m\u00fc?<\/strong><\/p>\n Yoksa bu \u00fclkede art\u0131k bir yas g\u00fcn\u00fc m\u00fc?<\/strong><\/p>\n RAKAMLAR SO\u011eUK AMA GER\u00c7EK<\/strong><\/p>\n Kad\u0131n cinayetleri art\u0131k m\u00fcnferit olaylar de\u011fil.<\/p>\n Bir tablo\u2026<\/p>\n Bir ger\u00e7ek\u2026<\/p>\n Ve ne yaz\u0131k ki giderek b\u00fcy\u00fcyen bir tablo.<\/p>\n T\u00fcrkiye\u2019de 2025 y\u0131l\u0131nda en az 391 kad\u0131n \u00f6ld\u00fcr\u00fcld\u00fc. Bunlar\u0131n 297\u2019si do\u011frudan kad\u0131n cinayeti, 94\u2019\u00fc ise \u015f\u00fcpheli \u00f6l\u00fcm olarak kay\u0131tlara ge\u00e7ti.<\/p>\n \u015e\u00fcpheli \u00f6l\u00fcm\u2026<\/p>\n Bu iki kelime bile ba\u015fl\u0131 ba\u015f\u0131na bir dramd\u0131r. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc bir\u00e7ok dosya \u2018intihar\u2019<\/strong> denilerek kapat\u0131l\u0131yor. Ama geride kalan aileler \u015funu s\u00f6yl\u00fcyor; \u2018Biz k\u0131z\u0131m\u0131z\u0131 tan\u0131yoruz\u2026 O intihar etmez.\u2019<\/strong><\/p>\n 2026 y\u0131l\u0131na geldik. Daha y\u0131l\u0131n ilk aylar\u0131\u2026 \u015eubat ay\u0131nda 23 kad\u0131n cinayeti i\u015flendi, 11 kad\u0131n ise \u015f\u00fcpheli \u015fekilde hayat\u0131n\u0131 kaybetti. Yani daha y\u0131l\u0131n ba\u015f\u0131nda onlarca kad\u0131n hayat\u0131n\u0131 kaybetti. Ve bu rakamlar sadece kay\u0131tlara ge\u00e7enler. Bir de kayda ge\u00e7meyenler var.<\/p>\n \u0130ntihar denilenler\u2026<\/strong><\/p>\n Faili bulunamayanlar\u2026<\/strong><\/p>\n Dosyas\u0131 kapananlar\u2026<\/strong><\/p>\n Bazen t\u00f6re cinayeti deniliyor.<\/strong><\/p>\n Bazen namus meselesi.<\/strong><\/p>\n Bazen aile i\u00e7i mesele.<\/strong><\/p>\n Ama ad\u0131 ne olursa olsun sonu\u00e7 de\u011fi\u015fmiyor; bir kad\u0131n daha hayattan kopar\u0131l\u0131yor. Bir \u00e7ocuk annesiz kal\u0131yor. Bir ev daha sessizli\u011fe g\u00f6m\u00fcl\u00fcyor.<\/p>\n KADINLAR EN \u00c7OK K\u0130MDEN KORKUYOR?<\/strong><\/p>\n Bu cinayetlerin en \u00fcrk\u00fct\u00fcc\u00fc taraf\u0131 \u015fu; kad\u0131nlar\u0131 \u00e7o\u011fu zaman yabanc\u0131lar \u00f6ld\u00fcrm\u00fcyor.<\/p>\n Kocas\u0131\u2026<\/strong><\/p>\n Eski e\u015fi\u2026<\/strong><\/p>\n Sevgilisi\u2026<\/strong><\/p>\n Ayr\u0131lmak istedi\u011fi erkek\u2026<\/strong><\/p>\n Bazen babas\u0131\u2026<\/strong><\/p>\n Bazen karde\u015fi\u2026<\/strong><\/p>\n Yani kad\u0131nlar \u00e7o\u011fu zaman en g\u00fcvende olmas\u0131 gereken yerde \u00f6ld\u00fcr\u00fcl\u00fcyor. Evlerinde. Bu meslekte say\u0131s\u0131z kad\u0131n cinayeti haberi yapt\u0131m.<\/p>\n Her dosyada ayn\u0131 hik\u00e2yeler\u2026<\/p>\n Ayn\u0131 c\u00fcmleler\u2026<\/p>\n Ayn\u0131 g\u00f6zya\u015flar\u0131\u2026<\/p>\n Bir keresinde bir baba bana \u015f\u00f6yle demi\u015fti; \u2018Biz k\u0131z\u0131m\u0131z\u0131 b\u00fcy\u00fctt\u00fck ama onu koruyamad\u0131k.\u2019 <\/strong>\u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc mesele sadece su\u00e7 de\u011fil. Mesele zihniyet meselesi.<\/p>\n Kad\u0131n\u0131 bir birey olarak de\u011fil, bir \u2018sahip olunan varl\u0131k\u2019<\/strong> gibi g\u00f6ren zihniyet\u2026<\/p>\n Bo\u015fanmay\u0131 kabullenemeyen ego\u2026<\/p>\n Cezas\u0131zl\u0131k duygusu\u2026<\/p>\n Ve \u00e7o\u011fu zaman ge\u00e7 gelen adalet.<\/p>\n Bug\u00fcn 8 Mart.<\/p>\n Belki \u00e7i\u00e7ekler verilecek.<\/p>\n Belki sosyal medyada g\u00fczel s\u00f6zler yaz\u0131lacak.<\/p>\n Ama ger\u00e7ek \u015fu:<\/p>\n Bir \u00fclkede kad\u0131nlar korkarak ya\u015f\u0131yorsa\u2026<\/strong><\/p>\n Bir \u00f6\u011fretmen s\u0131n\u0131fta b\u0131\u00e7aklan\u0131yorsa\u2026<\/strong><\/p>\n Bir \u00e7ocuk istismar girdab\u0131nda kayboluyorsa\u2026<\/strong><\/p>\n Bir kad\u0131n bo\u015fanmak istedi\u011fi i\u00e7in \u00f6ld\u00fcr\u00fcl\u00fcyorsa\u2026<\/strong><\/p>\n O \u00fclkede 8 Mart sadece bir kutlama g\u00fcn\u00fc de\u011fildir.<\/strong><\/p>\n Bir vicdan muhasebesidir.<\/strong><\/p>\n Belki de bu y\u00fczden bug\u00fcn kendimize \u015fu soruyu sormal\u0131y\u0131z; biz kad\u0131nlar\u0131 ger\u00e7ekten koruyor muyuz\u2026 Yoksa onlar\u0131 sadece \u00f6ld\u00fckten sonra m\u0131 hat\u0131rl\u0131yoruz?<\/p>\n Belki de as\u0131l soru \u015fudur;<\/p>\n Bir \u00fclkede kad\u0131nlar korkarak ya\u015f\u0131yorsa\u2026<\/strong><\/p>\n Bir \u00f6\u011fretmen s\u0131n\u0131fta \u00f6\u011frencisinin b\u0131\u00e7a\u011f\u0131yla can veriyorsa\u2026<\/strong><\/p>\n Bir \u00e7ocuk istismar karanl\u0131\u011f\u0131nda hayata veda ediyorsa\u2026<\/strong><\/p>\n Bir kad\u0131n bo\u015fanmak istedi\u011fi i\u00e7in \u00f6ld\u00fcr\u00fcl\u00fcyorsa\u2026<\/strong><\/p>\n O \u00fclkede 8 Mart\u2019ta \u00e7i\u00e7ek vermek yeterli midir?<\/strong><\/p>\n Yoksa \u00f6nce \u015fu ger\u00e7e\u011fi kabul etmek mi gerekir;<\/p>\n Kad\u0131nlar\u0131n \u00f6ld\u00fcr\u00fclmedi\u011fi bir \u00fclke kuramad\u0131k\u00e7a,<\/strong><\/p>\n E\u015fitli\u011fi ger\u00e7ekten sa\u011flayamad\u0131k\u00e7a,<\/strong><\/p>\n Adaleti zaman\u0131nda i\u015fletmedik\u00e7e\u2026<\/strong><\/p>\n 8 Mart bu topraklarda bir kutlama g\u00fcn\u00fc de\u011fil, Kad\u0131nlar i\u00e7in tutulmu\u015f b\u00fcy\u00fck bir yas g\u00fcn\u00fcd\u00fcr.<\/p>\n Sevgiyle kal\u0131n.<\/strong><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":" Baz\u0131 haftalar vard\u0131r\u2026 Takvimde s\u0131radan g\u00f6r\u00fcn\u00fcr ama ya\u015fananlar bir toplumun vicdan\u0131n\u0131 sarsar. \u0130\u015fte bu hafta tam da b\u00f6yle bir hafta.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":3,"featured_media":112672,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[24],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-112671","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-yazarlar"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/mardinhaberyolu.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/112671","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/mardinhaberyolu.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/mardinhaberyolu.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/mardinhaberyolu.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/3"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/mardinhaberyolu.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=112671"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/mardinhaberyolu.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/112671\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":112673,"href":"https:\/\/mardinhaberyolu.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/112671\/revisions\/112673"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/mardinhaberyolu.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/112672"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/mardinhaberyolu.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=112671"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/mardinhaberyolu.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=112671"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/mardinhaberyolu.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=112671"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}