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Bir d\u00f6nem kamuoyunda \u2018diploma \u00e7etesi\u2019 olarak an\u0131lan skandal, sahte belgelerle elde edilen unvanlar\u0131, bu unvanlarla i\u015fgal edilen makamlar\u0131 ve gasp edilen binlerce gencin hakk\u0131n\u0131 g\u00f6zler \u00f6n\u00fcne sermi\u015fti. Aradan aylar ge\u00e7ti, g\u00fcndem de\u011fi\u015fti; dosyalar kapand\u0131 ama haram d\u00fczen yerinde duruyor.<\/p>\n
Bug\u00fcn h\u00e2l\u00e2; liyakat yerine sadakat, ehliyet yerine yak\u0131nl\u0131k, al\u0131n teri yerine torpil konu\u015fuluyor. <\/strong>D\u00fcn s\u0131nav sorular\u0131 \u00e7al\u0131nd\u0131, bug\u00fcn ba\u015fka yollar bulundu. Y\u00f6ntemler de\u011fi\u015fti ama sonu\u00e7 de\u011fi\u015fmedi: Hak eden d\u0131\u015far\u0131da, hakk\u0131 gasp eden i\u00e7eride.<\/p>\n Bu tablo sadece bireysel bir ahlaks\u0131zl\u0131k de\u011fil; toplumsal bir kul hakk\u0131 su\u00e7udur.<\/p>\n KUL HAKKI: ANNE DE BABA DA AYNI DOSYADA<\/strong><\/p>\n Peygamber Efendimiz (s.a.v) \u00e7ok net bir uyar\u0131da bulunur:<\/p>\n \u2018Kul hakk\u0131yla gelen cennete giremez.\u2019 (Buh\u00e2r\u00ee, Mez\u00e2lim, 10)<\/strong><\/p>\n \u0130slam\u2019da kul hakk\u0131, aff\u0131 en zor g\u00fcnaht\u0131r. Bu hak ihlalinde anne-baba ayr\u0131m\u0131 yoktur. Torpili yapan baba da sorumludur; torpile raz\u0131 olan, bilen, te\u015fvik eden anne de\u2026<\/p>\n Bir anne; \u00e7ocu\u011funu torpille i\u015fe sokuyorsa, e\u015finin torpille i\u015fe soktu\u011funu biliyor ve buna ses \u00e7\u0131karm\u0131yorsa, hatta bunu ba\u015far\u0131 gibi anlat\u0131yorsa; ba\u015fkas\u0131n\u0131n evlad\u0131n\u0131n r\u0131zk\u0131n\u0131 gasp etmeye bilin\u00e7li \u015fekilde ortak oluyor demektir.<\/strong><\/p>\n Bu noktada \u2018Ben anne olarak ne yapabilirdim?\u2019 <\/strong>sorusu masumiyet do\u011furmaz. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc \u0130slam\u2019da bilenin susmas\u0131, \u00e7o\u011fu zaman g\u00fcnaha ortakl\u0131kt\u0131r.<\/p>\n Kur\u2019an bu konuda a\u00e7\u0131k bir s\u0131n\u0131r \u00e7izer:<\/p>\n \u2018G\u00fcnah ve d\u00fc\u015fmanl\u0131k \u00fczerinde yard\u0131mla\u015fmay\u0131n.\u2019 (Maide, 2)<\/strong><\/p>\n Torpile raz\u0131 olmak, harama g\u00f6z yummak, bunu normalle\u015ftirmek; yard\u0131mla\u015fman\u0131n ta kendisidir.<\/p>\n HARAM LOKMA: EVE G\u0130REN PARANIN HESABI<\/strong><\/p>\n Bir annenin s\u0131k\u00e7a s\u0131\u011f\u0131nd\u0131\u011f\u0131 c\u00fcmle \u015fudur:<\/p>\n \u2018Ben kazanmad\u0131m, e\u015fim kazand\u0131.\u2019<\/strong><\/p>\n Oysa \u0130slam\u2019da mesele kazanan el de\u011fil, bilen vicdand\u0131r.<\/p>\n Anne, eve giren paran\u0131n kumar, r\u00fc\u015fvet, faiz ya da haks\u0131z kazan\u00e7 oldu\u011funu biliyor; buna ra\u011fmen o parayla yiyip i\u00e7iyor, \u00e7ocuklar\u0131na da yediriyorsa sorumluluktan ka\u00e7amaz. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc bilerek haram\u0131 t\u00fcketmek, onu me\u015frula\u015ft\u0131rmakt\u0131r.<\/p>\n Peygamber Efendimiz (s.a.v) buyurur:<\/p>\n \u2018Haramla beslenen v\u00fccut, cehenneme daha lay\u0131kt\u0131r.\u2019 (Tirmiz\u00ee, Et\u2018ime, 39)<\/strong><\/p>\n Bu uyar\u0131 sadece kazanana de\u011fil; bilerek o lokmay\u0131 bo\u011faz\u0131ndan ge\u00e7iren herkese y\u00f6neliktir.<\/p>\n Kur\u2019an\u2019da ise daha sert bir hat\u0131rlatma vard\u0131r:<\/p>\n \u2018Zalimlere en k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck bir meyil g\u00f6stermeyin; yoksa size ate\u015f dokunur.\u2019 (H\u00fbd, 113)<\/strong><\/p>\n Buradaki \u2018Meyil\u2019; sadece fiil\u00ee ortakl\u0131k de\u011fil, sessizlikle onay, rahatl\u0131kla kabullenme, menfaat u\u011fruna susmad\u0131r.<\/p>\n TORP\u0130LLE \u00d6V\u00dcNMEK: G\u00dcNAHIN PROPAGANDASI<\/strong><\/p>\n Bir annenin;<\/p>\n \u2018Ben o\u011flumu torpille i\u015fe soktum\u2019<\/strong> ya da \u2018Babas\u0131 ayarlad\u0131, bizim \u00e7ocuk kap\u0131dan girdi\u2019<\/strong> diye etrafa hava atmas\u0131\u2026<\/p>\n Bu sadece bir g\u00f6rg\u00fcs\u00fczl\u00fck de\u011fildir; haram\u0131n reklam\u0131d\u0131r.<\/p>\n Kur\u2019an bu zihniyeti \u015f\u00f6yle tarif eder:<\/p>\n \u2018Onlar g\u00fcnah\u0131 ve haddi a\u015fmay\u0131 birbirlerine tavsiye ederler.\u2019 (Maide, 79)<\/strong><\/p>\n Torpille i\u015fe giren evlad\u0131na \u00f6vg\u00fcler ya\u011fd\u0131ran anne; haks\u0131zl\u0131\u011f\u0131 normalle\u015ftirir, zulm\u00fc s\u00fcsler, kul hakk\u0131n\u0131 ba\u015far\u0131 hik\u00e2yesine d\u00f6n\u00fc\u015ft\u00fcr\u00fcr. Bu sadece kendi g\u00fcnah\u0131 de\u011fildir; \u00e7ocu\u011funu da bu g\u00fcnaha al\u0131\u015ft\u0131rmakt\u0131r.<\/p>\n Peygamber Efendimiz (s.a.v) bu konuda \u00e7ok a\u011f\u0131r bir \u00f6l\u00e7\u00fc koyar: \u2018Kim bir k\u00f6t\u00fcl\u00fc\u011fe sebep olursa, onu i\u015fleyenin g\u00fcnah\u0131 kadar g\u00fcnah al\u0131r.\u2019 (M\u00fcslim, \u0130lim, 15)<\/p>\n Yani torpile sebep olan, te\u015fvik eden, alk\u0131\u015flayan; sadece ortak de\u011fil, y\u00fckleyici konumundad\u0131r.<\/p>\n Bir kurumda r\u00fc\u015fvet al\u0131nd\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131, harama imza at\u0131ld\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 bilen personelin; bu ki\u015fileri sosyal medyada \u00f6vmesi, be\u011fenmesi, alk\u0131\u015flamas\u0131 da ayn\u0131 vebalin i\u00e7indedir. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc zul\u00fcm sadece yapanla de\u011fil, me\u015frula\u015ft\u0131ranla da b\u00fcy\u00fcr.<\/p>\n Hz. \u00d6mer, halifeyken kendi o\u011fluna bile ayr\u0131cal\u0131k tan\u0131mad\u0131. Bug\u00fcn ise anne-baba, \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n\u0131n gelece\u011fini torpille kirletiyor. Torpille i\u015fe giren evlat; maa\u015f al\u0131r ama huzur bulamaz, makam kazan\u0131r ama \u00f6zg\u00fcvenini kaybeder. Bir \u00f6m\u00fcr, ba\u015fkas\u0131n\u0131n hakk\u0131 \u00fczerinden y\u00fckselmenin a\u011f\u0131rl\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 ta\u015f\u0131r.<\/p>\n Kur\u2019an bu gidi\u015fata kar\u015f\u0131 son s\u00f6z\u00fc s\u00f6yler:<\/p>\n \u2018Ey iman edenler! Kendinizi ve ailenizi ate\u015ften koruyun.\u2019 (Tahr\u00eem, 6)<\/strong><\/p>\n Bu ayet a\u00e7\u0131kt\u0131r: Aileni ate\u015fe s\u00fcr\u00fckleyen her yol haramd\u0131r.<\/strong><\/p>\n Ve yine: \u2018O g\u00fcn ne mal fayda verir ne evlat; ancak Allah\u2019a temiz bir kalple gelen kurtulur.\u2019 (\u015euar\u00e2, 88\u201389)<\/strong><\/p>\n Sonu\u00e7 olarak; Torpili yapan baba kadar, raz\u0131 olan anne de sorumludur.<\/strong><\/p>\n Haram kazan\u00e7la \u00f6v\u00fcnmek, g\u00fcnah\u0131 yaymakt\u0131r.<\/strong><\/p>\n Haram\u0131 bilip susan da, alk\u0131\u015flayan da vebalden ka\u00e7amaz.<\/strong><\/p>\n Helal lokma sadece mideyi de\u011fil, nesli temizler.<\/strong><\/p>\n Bir anne evlad\u0131n\u0131 ger\u00e7ekten seviyorsa; onu torpille de\u011fil, helal lokmayla b\u00fcy\u00fct\u00fcr.<\/strong><\/p>\n \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc haramla kurulan hi\u00e7bir gelecek, hay\u0131r getirmez.<\/strong><\/p>\n Sevgiyle kal\u0131n.<\/strong><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":" T\u00fcrkiye, son y\u0131llarda yaln\u0131zca ekonomik krizlerle de\u011fil, ahlaki bir \u00e7\u00f6k\u00fc\u015fle de s\u0131nan\u0131yor.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":3,"featured_media":112174,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[24],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-112173","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-yazarlar"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/mardinhaberyolu.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/112173","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/mardinhaberyolu.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/mardinhaberyolu.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/mardinhaberyolu.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/3"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/mardinhaberyolu.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=112173"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/mardinhaberyolu.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/112173\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":112175,"href":"https:\/\/mardinhaberyolu.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/112173\/revisions\/112175"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/mardinhaberyolu.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/112174"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/mardinhaberyolu.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=112173"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/mardinhaberyolu.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=112173"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/mardinhaberyolu.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=112173"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}