{"id":111599,"date":"2025-12-08T11:10:04","date_gmt":"2025-12-08T11:10:04","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/mardinhaberyolu.com\/?p=111599"},"modified":"2025-12-08T11:10:04","modified_gmt":"2025-12-08T11:10:04","slug":"sosyal-medyada-gunahin-anatomisi-bir-begeni-ile-zalimden-yana-olmak","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/mardinhaberyolu.com\/?p=111599","title":{"rendered":"SOSYAL MEDYADA G\u00dcNAHIN ANATOM\u0130S\u0130:  B\u0130R \u2018BE\u011eEN\u0130\u2019 \u0130LE ZAL\u0130MDEN YANA OLMAK\u2026"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>Masada ekonomi de konu\u015fuldu, hukuk da\u2026 Adaletin kantar\u0131ndan tar\u0131ma, belediye hizmetlerinden y\u00f6neticilerin niteli\u011fine kadar pek \u00e7ok konu d\u00f6k\u00fcld\u00fc ortaya. Derken s\u00f6z bir noktaya kilitlendi:<\/p>\n<p><strong>\u2018Sosyal medyada yolsuzluk yapan\u0131 be\u011fenmek g\u00fcnah m\u0131d\u0131r?\u2019<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>\u2018Yar\u0131 \u00e7\u0131plak foto\u011fraflar\u0131 be\u011fenmek dinen nedir?\u2019<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Herkesin akl\u0131nda ayn\u0131 soru, ayn\u0131 merak, ayn\u0131 tedirginlik vard\u0131. Birimizin masas\u0131ndaki sohbet, bir di\u011ferimizin evindeki tart\u0131\u015fma, bir\u00e7ok ki\u015finin i\u00e7inde saklad\u0131\u011f\u0131 bir \u00e7eli\u015fki asl\u0131nda. Bunu konu\u015furken i\u00e7imizden biri, \u2018Bu i\u015f ciddi bir mesele, bir de hocaya soral\u0131m\u2019 dedi. Ertesi g\u00fcn bir hoca dostumuzun kap\u0131s\u0131n\u0131 \u00e7ald\u0131k. Hoca dediyse \u00f6yle maa\u015f al\u0131p da eline tutu\u015fturulan hutbeleri okuyanlardan, Allah\u2019\u0131n emirlerinin yerine kulun emirlerini yerine getirenlerden olan\u0131 kastetmiyoruz. Hoca dostumuz Ayetleri, hadisleri, f\u0131k\u0131h h\u00fck\u00fcmlerini tek tek a\u00e7t\u0131; sorular\u0131m\u0131z\u0131 sorduk, cevaplar\u0131n\u0131 ald\u0131k.<\/p>\n<p>\u0130\u015fte bu yaz\u0131, o ak\u015fam masada ba\u015flayan ve ertesi g\u00fcn bir hocan\u0131n odas\u0131nda devam eden sohbetin sonucunda do\u011fdu.<\/p>\n<p>\u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc mesele sadece sosyal medya de\u011fil; <strong>kul hakk\u0131, ahlak, niyet, mahremiyet ve duru\u015f meselesi.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Ve bir M\u00fcsl\u00fcman\u0131n bug\u00fcn parma\u011f\u0131n\u0131n ucundaki bir <strong>\u2018be\u011feni\u2019<\/strong> ile bile kendi taraf\u0131n\u0131 belli etti\u011fi bir \u00e7a\u011fda ya\u015f\u0131yoruz.<\/p>\n<p><strong>\u2018BE\u011eEN\u0130N\u0130N\u2019 G\u00dcNAH H\u00dcKM\u00dc<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>\u00dclkenin bat\u0131s\u0131ndan do\u011fusuna kadar art\u0131k herkes biliyor ki sosyal medyada bir y\u00f6neticiyi be\u011fenmek basit bir hareket de\u011fil. Hele ki Do\u011fu ve G\u00fcneydo\u011fu\u2019da durum \u00e7ok daha a\u011f\u0131r\u2026<\/p>\n<p>\u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc bu b\u00f6lgede y\u0131llard\u0131r kayyumlar\u0131n Say\u0131\u015ftay raporlar\u0131na giren yolsuzluklar\u0131, milyonluk usuls\u00fcz harcamalar, \u00e7\u00f6p al\u0131m\u0131ndan akaryak\u0131ta kadar \u015fi\u015firilmi\u015f ihaleler, \u2018temsil-a\u011f\u0131rlama\u2019 ad\u0131 alt\u0131nda yap\u0131lan \u015faibeli harcamalar hepimizin g\u00f6zleri \u00f6n\u00fcnde ya\u015fand\u0131.<\/p>\n<p>Diyarbak\u0131r\u2019da neler oldu\u011funu bilmeyen yok. Van\u2019da hangi ihalelerin kimlere nas\u0131l verildi\u011fini, hangi kalemlerin nas\u0131l kabart\u0131ld\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 herkes konu\u015fuyor. Mardin\u2019de kayyum d\u00f6neminde yap\u0131lan tart\u0131\u015fmal\u0131 harcamalar Say\u0131\u015ftay\u2019\u0131n sayfalar\u0131nda duruyor.<\/p>\n<p>Hal b\u00f6yleyken, halk\u0131n ekme\u011fine g\u00f6z dikmi\u015f bir y\u00f6neticinin sosyal medya hesab\u0131na gidip \u2018be\u011feni\u2019 atmak art\u0131k sadece t\u0131klamak de\u011fildir. Bu, ona moral vermek, onu me\u015frula\u015ft\u0131rmak, onun politik varl\u0131\u011f\u0131na destek olmakt\u0131r.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Kur\u2019an bu konuda \u00e7ok a\u00e7\u0131kt\u0131r:\u00a0 \u2018Zulmedenlere meyletmeyin; yoksa size de ate\u015f dokunur.\u201d (Hud, 113)<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Ayet, sadece zulm\u00fc i\u015flemeyi de\u011fil, ona meyletmeyi, ona yak\u0131n durmay\u0131, ona destek g\u00f6r\u00fcnt\u00fcs\u00fc vermeyi bile yasaklamaktad\u0131r.<\/p>\n<p>F\u0131k\u0131h buna <strong>\u2018g\u00fcnaha yard\u0131m etmek\u2019<\/strong> der.<\/p>\n<p>Allah da \u015f\u00f6yle buyurur: \u2018<strong>G\u00fcnah ve d\u00fc\u015fmanl\u0131k \u00fczerine yard\u0131mla\u015fmay\u0131n.\u2019 (Maide, 2)<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Dolay\u0131s\u0131yla, yolsuzluk yapt\u0131\u011f\u0131 belgelerle ortaya \u00e7\u0131km\u0131\u015f, kul hakk\u0131 yemi\u015f bir y\u00f6neticinin g\u00f6nderisini <strong>\u2018be\u011fenmek\u2019<\/strong>, onun yapt\u0131\u011f\u0131 k\u00f6t\u00fcl\u00fc\u011f\u00fc me\u015frula\u015ft\u0131rmak, desteklemek ve o g\u00fcnaha ortak olmak anlam\u0131na gelir.<\/p>\n<p>Bunu daha a\u00e7\u0131k s\u00f6yleyeyim: <strong>Yolsuzluk yapan\u0131 sosyal medyada be\u011fenmek, \u0130slam\u2019a g\u00f6re g\u00fcnaht\u0131r. <\/strong>\u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc bir zalime destek vermek, zalimli\u011fe ortak olmakt\u0131r.<\/p>\n<p><strong>\u00c7IPLAKLIK, MAHREM\u0130YET VE BE\u011eEN\u0130N\u0130N VEBAL\u0130<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Sosyal medyan\u0131n di\u011fer y\u00fcz\u00fc \u00e7ok daha sessiz fakat daha tehlikeli; <strong>Mahremiyetin buharla\u015fmas\u0131\u2026<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Bug\u00fcn Instagram\u2019da kad\u0131nlar kasl\u0131, yar\u0131 \u00e7\u0131plak erkek bedenlerini be\u011feniyor; erkekler bikini, mayo veya \u00e7\u0131plak foto\u011fraflar\u0131.<\/p>\n<p>Kimse g\u00f6rm\u00fcyor san\u0131yor. Oysa insan \u00f6nce kendini kand\u0131r\u0131yor. Kur\u2019an hem erkeklere hem kad\u0131nlara ayn\u0131 emri verir; \u2018G\u00f6zlerini haramdan sak\u0131ns\u0131nlar\u2026\u2019 (Nur, 30\u201331)<\/p>\n<p>Bu sadece bakmay\u0131 de\u011fil, be\u011fenmeyi, e\u011filmeyi, tasvip etmeyi de kapsar. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc be\u011feni, sadece g\u00f6zle de\u011fil kalple yap\u0131lan bir harekettir. Peygamber Efendimiz bu konuda \u015f\u00f6yle buyurur; <strong>\u2018G\u00f6z\u00fcn zin\u00e2s\u0131 bakmakt\u0131r.\u2019 (M\u00fcslim).<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Bug\u00fcn bu g\u00f6z zinas\u0131n\u0131n en yo\u011fun i\u015flendi\u011fi yer sosyal medyad\u0131r. Bir M\u00fcsl\u00fcman\u0131n; <strong>\u015eehvet uyand\u0131ran bedenleri, Yar\u0131 \u00e7\u0131plak g\u00f6r\u00fcnt\u00fcleri, Mahremi if\u015fa eden foto\u011fraflar\u0131 be\u011fenmesi, \u0130slam\u2019daki mahremiyet anlay\u0131\u015f\u0131na ayk\u0131r\u0131d\u0131r ve g\u00fcnaht\u0131r. <\/strong>Bu kad\u0131n i\u00e7in de b\u00f6yledir, erkek i\u00e7in de. Ayr\u0131m yoktur.<\/p>\n<p><strong>PARMAKLARIMIZIN UCUNDAK\u0130 G\u00dcNAH <\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Bug\u00fcnk\u00fc dijital \u00e7a\u011fda be\u011fenilerimiz birer parmak izi gibi bizi ele veriyor. Kimin yan\u0131nda durdu\u011fumuzu, neyi onaylad\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z\u0131, hangi ahlak\u0131 sahiplendi\u011fimizi g\u00f6steriyor.<\/p>\n<p><strong>H\u0131rs\u0131z\u0131, talanc\u0131y\u0131, kul hakk\u0131 yiyeni, yolsuzluk yapan\u0131 be\u011fenmek\u2026<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>Ahlak s\u0131n\u0131rlar\u0131n\u0131 zorlayan \u00e7\u0131plak g\u00f6r\u00fcnt\u00fcleri onaylamak\u2026<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Bunlar\u0131n her biri iman, niyet ve duru\u015f meselesidir.<\/p>\n<p>Bu yaz\u0131 bir masadaki \u00e7ay sohbetinden \u00e7\u0131kt\u0131 belki ama asl\u0131nda toplumun derin yaras\u0131na dokunuyor. \u015eunu sak\u0131n unutmayal\u0131m: <strong>M\u00fcsl\u00fcman, zalimin de\u011fil; hakk\u0131n yan\u0131nda durand\u0131r. Ve bazen hakk\u0131n yan\u0131nda durmak, sadece bir be\u011feniyi esirgemekle ba\u015flar.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>Sevgiyle kal\u0131n.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Son birka\u00e7 ayd\u0131r yo\u011fun \u015fekilde Van\u2019dayd\u0131m. Annemin rahats\u0131zl\u0131\u011f\u0131 nedeniyle hastane koridorlar\u0131yla ev aras\u0131nda gidip gelen bir tempoya girmi\u015f, neredeyse sosyal hayattan tamamen kopmu\u015ftum. Diyarbak\u0131r\u2019a d\u00f6ner d\u00f6nmez birka\u00e7 dostum \u2018Ercan geldi, bir nefes alal\u0131m\u2019 diyerek benim onuruma m\u00fctevaz\u0131 bir yemek d\u00fczenlediler. Yeme\u011fin ard\u0131ndan masay\u0131 \u00e7ay s\u00fcsledi, sohbet ise k\u0131sa s\u00fcrede her Diyarbak\u0131rl\u0131 masan\u0131n ka\u00e7\u0131n\u0131lmaz ger\u00e7e\u011fine d\u00f6n\u00fc\u015ft\u00fc: Siyaset.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":3,"featured_media":111600,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[24],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-111599","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-yazarlar"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/mardinhaberyolu.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/111599","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/mardinhaberyolu.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/mardinhaberyolu.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/mardinhaberyolu.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/3"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/mardinhaberyolu.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=111599"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/mardinhaberyolu.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/111599\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":111601,"href":"https:\/\/mardinhaberyolu.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/111599\/revisions\/111601"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/mardinhaberyolu.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/111600"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/mardinhaberyolu.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=111599"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/mardinhaberyolu.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=111599"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/mardinhaberyolu.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=111599"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}